What gold jewellery are needed for the Betrothal Gift Ceremony (Guo Da Li)?
During the Betrothal Gift Ceremony (known as Guo Da Li), in addition to the customary gifts such as pastries and betrothal gifts, what other gold jewellery should be included?
Typically, the groom's family presents the bride-to-be with a set of "Four Jewellery Set" or "Five Jewellery Set” as a gesture of respect and as a gift for the first meeting.
"Four Jewellery Set" includes a gold necklace or a gold pig necklace, a pair of dragon and phoenix bangle, gold earrings, and a gold ring. If you want to add an extra touch of elegance, you can include a gold bangle as part of the "Five Jewellery Set”.
Both "Four Jewellery Set" and "Five Jewellery Set” hold significant meanings, and each piece of gold jewellery carries its own symbolism.
Dragon and Phoenix bangle : Symbolises harmony and a perfect match.
Floral Jewelry : Represents prosperity, happiness, and fulfillment.
Gold Pig Necklace : Symbolises the birth of children and a large posterity.
Gold Necklace : As it is worn close to the heart, it represents a deep connection.
Gold Ring : Blesses the couple to keep their promises to each other.
Gold Earrings : Symbolises the desire for many generations and descendants.
Why use gold to make these jewellery pieces? Gold is a precious metal known for its durability, representing an everlasting and unchanging relationship.